"Young Love."

My outlook on couples nowadays have definitely changed. I'll just put it out there and just say: everyone cheats and nobody is every completely faithful anymore. And this of course is not completely true, but it is something I believe in. Mind you, I have been through this type of relationship that I will soon describe and have continually witnessed friends of mines in couples go through similar situations. In the end, happy or not, some shit was going on some time or one day or night in your relationship. Trust. Hella negative? Yes, but the truth hurts! If you're interested in what I have to stay, read on! I would love to hear your comments :)

Trust and Honesty
Why is it that there is always one person who does shit behind the other persons back? Whether it be friendly innocent flirting, going out with friends, deleting texts from your phone before your girlfriend or boyfriend see.. My answer to that: Because they are "afraid" of hurting their girl/boyfriend, want to stay out of trouble, or just want to avoid the unnecessary fights. The solution: be honest and trust your partner! Simple and easy, right? But nobody gets that shit. Either the boy is too stupid to figure that out by now (being honest instead of hiding shit will stay you out of trouble) or the girl is insecure and has trust issues and constantly nags and searches for shit to get their boy caught up. It can go the other way around of course, but this is what I commonly see happen. If both of you are like this, both of you are stupid. Just let that shit go, trust each other, and be honest!

Cheaters
Compulsive, habitual cheaters? My cousin and I couldn't find a label that fits, but for these people, what is the point of being in a relationship? If you're going to always cheat, flirt with other people, constantly lie, why stay?! Leave! You're obviously not happy with your girl/boy if you always cheat on them, so why don't you just save yourself and your partner the trouble and break it off. I see no good reason for a cheater to stay in a relationship if they're going to be fucking different people other than their partners. And for the ones who have cheaters as their girl/boyfriends, and they are well aware of it and stay?! Um, yea you needa leave quick. Do cheaters deserve a second chance? Well that's for you to decide on your own.. But if your friends are constantly telling you the same shit over and over again, listen to them. I'm so tired of seeing my girls fall into their stupidness and stay when everyone is telling them to leave. Everything is laid out right in front of your face, why don't you choose to just see it?


Personally, I don't really giva fuck about boyfriends who dance with other girls, flirt (there is a thin line between flirting.. and FLIRTING lol), or hang out with his boys. He is his own person and can do whatever the hell he wants. And no, I'm not talking about unfaithful shit. But.. if he wants to do his own thing, he can do it. If he smokes and drinks, that's on him. I'm not gonna change him because I know what I would be getting into from the get. With that said, I could do whatever the fuck I want too. I'm my own person and I choose to do what I want. I think couples who have to check up on each other or have to check in all the time are stupid. Why would I want to know what you're doing every minute of the day? I think this is one of the reasons why guys get hella annoyed by their girls, thus lying to them about the shit they do. Lol, this was supposed to be a blog, but now I'm just ranting.

Realism vs. Idealism
Ideal couple: Trust, honesty, love, happiness, no problems, whatever. Realism: There will be problems, it will be hard, someone will always cheat! Hahahha, just kidding. Not always. What I'm saying is, couples these days.. Someone is always likely not ready to commit. We're fucking YOUNG! Too young to start "forever" now. Someone always will be curious what it would be like to be with someone else, talk to someone else, experience to be single, whether they have been together for hella long. The longer, the worst! In my opinion. Seems like everything is going good, you guys have been able to be together for years.. but to me, that just means somebody will get bored at one point and become curious what it's like to even talk to somebody else. One can say that have no intentions of leaving their girl/boyfriend, which may be true.. But either way, to do something behind their back, no matter how small, it makes them a liar/cheater/unfaithful, whatever you wanna call it!

I absolutely do not know of one couple who have not been through shit like this. Whether both of them are aware of it or not (secret: girls are hella good ass liars). I'm hella anti-boy/anti-couples right now if you couldn't tell. Hahah. I'm just stating the truth, so accept it!

"I want a girl when I want a girl, and when I don't want a girl, I want a girl who understands that."

For now, I just wanna chilllll. I wouldn't mind having one person around, but I'm not looking for anything serious. I'll probably edit this later, I'm kinda tired from ranting lol.

Oh! And why don't you look at that, it's been five years that I've had this blogger hahah. Noice. Not really, but still.